As ceremonial magicians, we know the power of using all our senses to create ritual space. Visual cues like weapons — a sword, a wand, whatever is appropriate to the work. Olfactory cues like the right incense for the task at hand. But what about auditory cues? Sex magicians may wish to consider the power of the playlist.
Vanessa Marin is a licensed psychotherapist specializing in sex therapy. It’s her mission to take the intimidation out of sex therapy and bring the fun back into the bedroom, and she offers some suggestions.