No matter how accomplished, sex magicians are still human beings. Human beings generally have hopes, fears, and even insecurities. These insecurities can get in the way of focus, making it difficult to direct one’s will. Stylecaster reports:
Interestingly, some research has shown that sexual-performance anxieties are largely the same for cisgender women and cisgender men. A 2016 Superdrug Online Doctor survey of 2,000 American and European adults found that the most common sexual stressors for cisgender men and women alike were STIs, body image, achieving orgasm and unintended pregnancy.
What if you knew ways to get your mind away from worries and on to magick? Admittedly these are rather specific to cisgender, binary folks, but we have to start somewhere. Never fear, there will be further diversity in later articles!
4 Common Sexual-Performance Anxieties—and How to Overcome Them
Overuse of pornography is a huge factor in sub optimal sexual performance in men.
Sex primarily happens in the mind and when you’re watching the super exaggerated stuff you see in 2018 porn, pretty much nothing that 99% of the population is gonna experience IRL with a real partner can compare.
I’ve found that IRL sex is much more fulfilling and that I get much harder the longer I’ve abstained from porn. Recently, I’ve given it up completely and find that approaching women in general is easier and my social anxiety is much much less.
Check out this video in the topic. It’s the best 1 hour you’ll spend watching two people talk: https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=mhqx7yctQVk
Thanks for sharing your experiences in this area!