Giving Sexual Feedback Without Crushing Egos

Lovers holding hands

My ecstasy is in yours. My joy is to see your joy.

It’s difficult to feel permission to give a lover criticism, even if it’s constructive. Spending intimate time with someone implies that one doesn’t want to hurt their feelings. In fact, one hopes that one wants to be a positive influence in a lover’s life.

It can be done!

Everyone’s different. What works for one person may not work for another. Letting a partner know how to give one pleasure can only increase joy.

Bedsider offers “6 ways to manage those tricky conversations,” below:

  1. Mix your feedback in with dirty talk
  2. Focus on the positive
  3. Let the non-verbal do the talking
  4. Show them how you do it
  5. Take it outside the bedroom
  6. Be direct but be kind

How to give feedback in bed without crushing your partner’s self-esteem.


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