“Is it weird to think about Miley Cyrus during sex?…asking for a friend,” says the subtitle in a recent Women’s Health article. Fantasies are part of a healthy sex life. They may just be your brain’s way of getting past stress and anxiety, or they might mean something more. As Ian Kerner, Ph.D., says, fantasies let your brain take the risks your body and society might not allow. Obviously you can take it a step further with a willing partner; indeed, it might be just the thing to spice up a sex magick working. If you aren’t comfortable doing so, there’s nothing wrong with that, either!