My ecstasy is in yours. My joy is to see your joy.
It’s difficult to feel permission to give a lover criticism, even if it’s constructive. Spending intimate time with someone implies that one doesn’t want to hurt their feelings. In fact, one hopes that one wants to be a positive influence in a lover’s life.
It can be done!
Everyone’s different. What works for one person may not work for another. Letting a partner know how to give one pleasure can only increase joy.
Bedsider offers “6 ways to manage those tricky conversations,” below:
- Mix your feedback in with dirty talk
- Focus on the positive
- Let the non-verbal do the talking
- Show them how you do it
- Take it outside the bedroom
- Be direct but be kind